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A New Year Message In Recovery By ~ Brittany Shelton~(Courtesy of Discovering beautiful) . . . .
“It is our job to keep ourselves on track, pushing toward our own goals, and to encourage other people along while they are working toward theirs.”
I won’t force you to listen to my personal top 50 song list of 2016, the things that I am most grateful for, or my complete goal list for 2017.
I just want to share one of my personal goals that I am carrying over into 2017.
It is to stop allowing the comparison game to take up space in my mind. I made progress in 2016, and this year, I am going to do a better job of supporting other people without getting distracted from what is important to me.
And I know I am not alone in this….
You read something and immediately begin to wonder if what you have just written sucks.
You can’t help but wonder if you are blogging often enough.
Is your viewpoint relevant anymore?
Are your topics current?
Are your stats high enough?
Is there enough traffic?
Why aren’t you being interviewed?
Is your site as busy as his or as exciting as hers?
Have you participated in as many podcasts as she has?
Did he attend more yoga conventions than you did this month?
Do you need to find more summits to network at?
Have you even started writing your second book yet?
Are you self-publishing or do you have an agent or a publisher?
Are you not interacting enough?
Have you been sharing enough?
Why does it always feel like kissing ass instead of real connection?
Do we need to scrap our whole site and hire a professional designer?
Are our networking connections even real?
Is what I am doing important?
It’s all about what’s hidden on the inside of our experiences.
This list could go on and on.
And don’t get me wrong, no one pushes these feelings on me. I do it to myself. But this is real shit that I feel from time to time.
I love and appreciate connections on social media and I am happy to know that I am not alone. There are people out there who understand. They get it. I appreciate all of my friends who do support my blog and I am driven to keep going by the feedback from the people who tell me directly that I have inspired them to keep living. That fuels my heart like nothing else.
“But I am ALWAYS reminding myself that God has a specific plan for my life, and I only cheat myself when I allow my mind to trick me into thinking that what I have to offer isn’t important or isn’t enough.”
Blog lists, ranks, re-tweets, shares, likes, or LinkedIn connections can feel nice, but realistically they are not sufficient substitutes that can accurately gauge anyone’s sense of self-worth, relevance, or importance in this world.
For me, my identity is found in my relationship with GOD.
His will and plan for my life is what really matters, and at the end of the day, I know that I am who God says that I am, and I am capable of doing the uniquely personal things that He has carved out for my journey. For 2017, I am going to prayerfully and more consistently remind myself of these things.
I would urge you to embrace your own goals and not to lose sight of what is important to you.
Remember why you started.
And always support other people doing their thing too.
It is our job to keep ourselves on track, pushing toward our own goals, and to encourage other people along while they are working toward theirs.
Happy New Year. 🙂